If something is done, you don’t need to make it happen. If it’s done, you can move on to the next thing.
If you’re feeling like you really need to do everything you possibly can to make sure that the thing that you want happens, then you’re not feeling that it’s done. You’re not in the state of your wish fulfilled.
When you’re in the state of your wish fulfilled, there is no pressure any more to make it happen. It’s done. You’re pregnant. The vacation is booked.
Now all you need to do is continue with your everyday life and carry out any preparations required before the big (or small) event happens. There is no stress, no pressure, no sense of urgency. There is only a sense of anticipation, a feeling of looking forward and a feeling of pleasure and delight in what you know is coming.
Let yourself surrender to that feeling. Trust that the bigger you is on your side, and that it knows exactly what you want even better than you know yourself. Allow it to lead you and guide you. Flow with it. It will never ever let you down. It is always there for you, no matter what, no matter how dire your current situation might be.
Go within and transform things over there, at the source. That is where all the power is. And then relax and enjoy the bliss of watching what you did on the inside materialise on the outside.